The Truth About Sadomasochism
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Maybe happy, hot kinky sex isn’t as fearful as you imagine it to be.
It is easy to buy into the stigma that surrounds SM, mainly that it’s “kinky,” “deviant,” or “freaky.” Many people envision dark dungeons, chains and whips, or perhaps even sharp metal objects and ball-gags. While this stuff certainly does go on in SM communities, bedrooms, and dungeons, it is important to realize that SM is often quite tame. In fact, you may have already participated in SM without knowing it.
A very real and legitimate part of SM involves sensations, which can sometimes be as light as the tickle of a feather. Not all SM involves pain. Have you ever experimented with feathers, or ice cubes? What about fingernails? …
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Comments
That’s definitely a way to make people think; I sometimes ask people if they’ve ever held their partner’s wrists down during sex, scratched their nails down someone’s back, tied someone down with a scarf or handcuffs, or bitten their partner. If so, they’ve tried s&m or bondage.
Posted by: roo-roo | April 30, 2007 8:17 AM