How Do You Address a Collared Slave?
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B&D Emporium owner Steven Hosie explains the bandana code and the nuances of S&M etiquette:
According to Hosie, it’s very bad form to make a move on someone who is wearing a collar or even, in some cases, to speak to them without permission. Yet others in this kind of relationship prefer to be more discreet. Instead of a collar they’ve agreed upon another article of clothing or accessory to signify their filial dynamic: a ring or bracelet, for example. The mere act of putting it on becomes symbolic
