Getting Your Spouse to Try Bondage
» Advice (often bad) » S&M / BDSM
A woman who wants her husband to tie her up writes:
… I get turned on by the idea of bondage. We tried it and I loved it. He tries to accommodate if he can, but just isn’t that interested. We’ve gone to counseling; he wouldn’t talk about sex. But I can’t get over my desires. I love him and my marriage. …
… First, you should be very clear with him about what it is you want him to do and what you want from the experience. Just saying “bondage” can sound vague, leaving him standing over you with a bungee cord and a confused look on his face. …
The whole answer: Feeling restrained in the bedroom?
