BDSM Doesn't Mean Bad Childhood
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Dated generalization about BDSM and fetishes will probably never die.
Men are more likely to get hooked on fetishes or sado-masochism if they suffer a cold, unloving childhood, don’t experience many loving cuddles and are too often left to get the physical stimulation they need from their babyhood environment - nappies, waterproof coverings, being left to play around Mum’s feet - rather than from being held close to Mum’s warm body and lovingly cuddled, which is what small babies really need and long for.
They end up hooked on and stimulated by the fabrics and objects instead of a loving womans body. Finding release in pain usually stems from only getting attention or simulation when young when it was linked with physical or emotional pain.
If there is a gender imbalance it might stem from women being brought up to be more sexually repressed than men.
