Aftercare

Midori - the wise, remarkable and lovely BDSM educator - writes about the importance of proper aftercare after a kinky scene or session:

I realize that aftercare isn’t as sexy a topic as say, double handed flogging, Master/slave protocols, suspension bondage, etc. Thus we don’t see it in great frequencies at the educational series or discussed with depth. We know we need it, but we don’t dwell on it. We treat it like flossing our teeth. “Yes, yes, we know…”

Unfortunately the reality is that the presence or absence, timing, quality and sincerity of aftercare can make the difference between a fantastic scene and a miserable experience. It’s as necessary as air or water; similarly vital, yet taken for granted until it goes missing or quality is degraded.

Aftercare - Healing Better to Play Harder