Reverse Cowgirl
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The preferred position at least for UK men:
The woman straddles her man, facing his feet, allowing her to become the dominatrix, totally controlling the rhythms and movements.
The next saucy position was The Butterfly, which also means she is the mistress on top, but this time facing the man.
FHM.com editor David Monihan said: “From a total of 28 positions the top two give the women complete control of the situation.
Comments
Woman on top? Sounds like a plan.
I wonder how many ‘vanilla’ men would really want to go further with that submission? And how much society plays a role in stopping this?
Posted by: Alexandra | March 29, 2007 11:37 PM
I enjoy the Butterfly, but I find, and my girlfriend agrees, that it’s much more satisfying when I get the top. Or when we bring out the Yoga Swing.
Posted by: Drake | April 11, 2007 7:48 PM
Reverse cowgirl- is the worst position EVER for females. Its basically for lazy guys who want to have sex without doing much, while watching their partners bottom going up and down. In my view (and several girlfriends as well, we’ve discussed it!) here’s why we think this is an amateur move which should be banned!:
1) No visual stimulation for the girl. She’s looking at the guy’s knees and feet- why is this sexy? Answer: It isn’t. Linked to that- she can’t look at this which may be exciting- a man’s chest, arms, face, lips, eyes, etc.
2) Its not intimate - at all. She’s again looking at feet - there’s no connection at all through eye contact. Its like anonymous sex. Women often like more connection.
3) No breast stimulation: He can’t reach her breasts - so can’t caress her breasts or play with her nipples to stimulate her.
4) No clitoral stimulation: her clit is facing into the gap between his legs. So she’s not going to orgasm doing this.
5) Unless a woman has the legs of a professional athlete - its very difficult to lift her entire body weight up and down via her thigh muscles.
6) It bends the penis the wrong way- it wants to spring out, which can easily cause damage, or can be painful to her as well. It also goes against the angle of her vaginal canal.
Bottom line: This position is a disaster for women, for all of the above reasons. Guys who want to do this - either don’t know about a woman’s anatomy- or frankly, don’t care if she is pleased, sexually. This position is all about the guy’s pleasure. Too bad guys are learning sex from porn, because they are being greatly misguided. An excited partner leads to better sex. Nothing about this position is arousing for a woman, and it could in fact lower her overall arousal.. taking her further from orgasm.
Our vote: Thumbs down!!!!
J
Posted by: Jewel | July 20, 2008 7:00 PM