Intimacy of Fantasy
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From an interesting essay by Secondhand Rose:
Each time we give we are aware that we are similarly there for the taking. Just as cock cannot experience my cunt without penetrating my body, neither can I really deliver a fantasy without participating in the touching of our minds, souls, emotions etc. In order to make a fantasy work — really work past simple friction — I must assume emotional positions. This, of course, is even more true in the case of stories where my words and voice are all I have to use. If I don’t evoke the proper mood, setting — the mind fuck — then where’s the heat and friction coming from? (And if I’m really not understanding such subtleties, my literature rubs the wrong way!)
This emotional connection is what leaves us both equally vulnerable. And it’s what makes the work exhausting. (Personally, my cunt can take much more use than such intimate sharing of everything else called ‘me’.)
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