Help! My Boyfriend is a Masochist!
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Vanilla Girlfriend with Masochist Boyfriend
Maybe she is what he needs
A young woman who has a lover with a trample fetish and desire to be humiliated shares her shock and disgust with an advice columnist:
The only way he can get an erection is if he lays down on the floor and I walk over him calling him filthy names, and telling him how disgusting he is.
The columnist replies:
His unusual sexual needs stem from things that have happened in his past.
Wrong: the last thing the man should do is seek a therapist who will try to cure him. You can’t purge someone’s sexual orientation. And sadomasochistic needs are as much a form of orientation as gender preference.
If she isn’t sadistic then they ned to split up, not expect him to change his sexual needs. With luck she’ll find some commonplace vanilla guy. And he will find a women who enjoys walking on men and degrading them. (For fun of course.)
Comments
Why do they “need” to split up? There are so many other options available to them! For example, if they are well matched in all other regards, he could find a trample-mate for that particular need, and remain with the woman for all other aspects of their relationship.
For a contributor who seems sexually liberal, why jump only to solutions based on monogamy?
Posted by: Benevolentbunny | August 10, 2011 2:55 PM