What Should She Do With Her Small-Penised Boyfriend?
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I was kind of late in learning of the phallus measurement paranoia some men have. Probably spam email was my first real inkling (though I’d long new many gay men who clearly felt bigger is better). Learning how many hundreds of millions of dollars the peddlers of bogus herbal enlarging pills make off worried men really clued me in.
Still I always accepted the old saw that “women don’t really care.”
But as women become ever more sexually open and honest it seems as if some portion care to varying degrees. And that many women do esteem well hung but not monstrous male.
This question to Slate’s Dear Prudence column put the nail in the coffin of any remaining illusions I might’ve still retained.
I have a new boyfriend who is generous, fun, kind, gentle, and very loving. We rekindled after several years apart and didn’t break up badly the first time. I like him and I could possibly see a life with him. The problem is that he isn’t well-endowed; well below average, in fact. I knew this before we rekindled, but thought I could look past it. I’m not a size queen, but I really would like to enjoy a fuller sex life …
Is it possible to get past my boyfriend’s shortcomings?
Earlier:
- Urologists study penis size
- Rating a man’s penis by size
- Teacher used SMS to ask students their penis size
- Diminutive Male Genitalia Disorder Research Organization
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Comments
I think she should get him a chastity device like my wife makes me wear. Then she could keep him and she could still have other men.
Posted by: Bob | April 4, 2007 7:48 PM
my girlfriend was completely honest with me telling me i couldnt please her but she still loved me. what she did was bought toys to please her and occaisionally i let her have PROTECTED sec with another guy. i do that bercause i feel that she deserves pleasure no matter what mybe someting like that will work
Posted by: matthew | April 11, 2007 11:17 AM
I have a 4.5” penis like she describes and I have had several women tell me that it was small and they didn’t like having it inside them. My current girlfriend just has me perform oral sex and we don’t do penetration. She told me it was that or she was going to break up. She has continued to see other men the whole time we have been together, so she is getting her big cock fix other places, but I feel very fortunate to be with because she is incredibly hot and I love eating her pussy so I am happy with the arrangement. If she really likes him, perhaps she should talk to him about her being able to see other men who can please her sexually.
Posted by: johndoe | May 9, 2007 3:21 AM
My wife alvays complain my small and tiny penis. She has a lover “wellhanged” whon take care of the intercourse. For my she sometimes let me lick her but mostly wants me to masturbate in fron of here. This turns me on.
Posted by: Pete | May 10, 2007 6:22 PM
I have a 5” erect cock at best. I’m in good to great shape and have a bodybuilder body. In bed with my wife, I’ve learned to use my mouth,nose,fingers, vibrator and dildo so she can have many orgasms. She like to rub my cock with her feet and never touches it with her hands or mouth. I don’t mind. I go down on her on her pussy and ass. There have been times where she has 4-5 orgasms and then pushes me off and tells me we’re done. She won’t let me masturbate as it keeps me on edge. When I use a dildo it is 8” and thick and she cums really hard and cums alot. She tells me that its too big, but I think she was being nice.
Posted by: ripdabs | May 15, 2007 11:34 AM
She should either accept it and take oral sex from him with toys as well or leave him.
Posted by: gordon | May 25, 2007 12:05 PM
I am 32, however I have an only 9 cm (3.55″) short penis (erected). When soft, it is not bigger then 2″ and always sticks out horizontal, it never dangles like men with real penises. Plus I have small, boyish balls. Usually it shrivels up to 1″ so it looks like a prune. When it is cold, it practically disappears, the little flesh that I have shrinks into my body and it looks like I dont have one at all. I usually make an embarrassing mess if I try to pee at an urinal, I can hardly get my penis past the zipper − so usually I sit down to pee like a woman. I had the smallest one in the high school and I was all the time laughed at and teased because of my tiny pee-wee. I was several times humiliated when the boys whipped of my trunk in the pool in front of dozen girls, getting exposed my tiny dicklet and my little balls. I also was forced to walk naked into the girls locker room in the gym where then they were belly-laughing at me and mocking my size, saying Hello wee-wee, did you com to pee? and My 12 year old brother has almost twice as bigger as yours! (And it was true. Definitely. I have now a size than that of 12 years old boy ) Since then I love being humiliated and mocked, particularly by girls younger to me.
Posted by: Weenie | June 12, 2007 8:35 PM
I am a 37 year old married male with a short little 4.5” penis and not much for thickness. I am immensely turned on by small penis humiliation. I do believe that even if I had a choice to become bigger I would not do it as I derive so much sexual pleasure from small penis humiliation fantasies. With some prodding I have finally talked my wife into being open and honest with me about the fact that I am a small penis man. She felt kind of mean about telling me it was small, didnt want to hurt my feelings and what not but now she understands how immensely it turns me on to have her tell me how it is hard to gain any real sexual pleasure from it, how she allows me to penetrate her but only as a favor for me because it doesnt provide any sexual relief for her. When she wants an orgasm she will tell me to use my hand on her, pretty much fisting her as she likes it very big and thick and comes very hard when I do this. Then after I have satisfied her with my hand she allows me to put my little penis in her and fuck her until I come, which usually only takes about a minute or two. As well, she will sometimes have me suckle her nipples like a small baby would while she uses a long thick vibrator on herself until she comes. She LOVES having her nipples sucked on, suckled, often calling me her little baby while I suckle, telling me to “suck Mommies nipples” and “that’s a good little baby, is your little penis hard?” I practically come without any contact when she talks this way to me. We have played this way where as well she makes me wear an adult diaper while suckling, and I have to pee in the diaper if the urge hits, this is so I wont stop suckling until she is fully satisfied. As a rule I have to tell her when I need to pee so she can give permission to go. I love this humiliation style man turned into baby play! On top of having a small little penis I am also very fast in coming, quite useless for sure and I love hearing that I am. When I am fucking my wife she will say things like “maybe if you push really hard I might be able to feel it a little bit” and “it’s okay, you cant help having a little tiny baby penis” While talking to her about her other lovers she has had in her life, about 30 other men, (most of them were 3 way encounters with me, my wife and male friends of ours as I love to watch my wife being fucked by larger endowed men)) she has come to realize that I indeed am probably the smallest cock she has ever had in her life, maybe one or two others were close. She never really thought about it, according to her, until I brought it up. But now she does agree with me that I am very small in comparison to most others. I gain an instant erection hearing her admit things like that to me and knowing it is not even just a game but the Gods honest truth. My wife doesnt have any interest in having a part time big cock lover but I would definitely allow it if she did, I could easily live a cuckold existence with her if she ever felt the need to do so. Maybe someday????
Posted by: 4.5 penis boy | June 27, 2007 2:00 PM
hello all iam also on the small side. weenie’s story sounds alot like my own. when i was born my parents told me that me penis wasn’t even out yet or even developed.they told me that they went to the doctor every six months for a check up so the doctor could see if i was developing or not. in junior high i always asked for the locker in the coner so no one could see me change.it was’nt until about twelve when i noticed i was way smaller than everybody.and it didn’t help at home my step dad forced me into womens clothing around the house ALL THE TIME!! sometimes even out in public.Then when i was about 14-15 i had devloped some small testies and when i was hard my cock was so small no one could ever tell.I started anal masturbating just so i could cum.i didn’t have any toys so i improvised. i would put on my mothers panties or my favorite was a skin tight leotard.lube up my ass. ps, dont ever use shaving cream toothpaste or anything with menthol it burns like a mother fucker. then i’d get her curling iron {not on of course} and slowly insert it in my ass then give myself the best wedgie in the world to get that curling iron in there nice and tight and deep.the i’d put on some make up on stockings. and a pretty necklace get my self all hot and when i was really really hornie i just get on my belly and fuck wildly until i came. I can’t even get a slight chubby unless i have something crammed way the hell up my ass. Don’t think iam gay though, not that theres anything wrong with that.Iam just a bottom when it comes to men.But i do love women especially trannies and shemales i’d love to marry one.I’ve been with men and three women i love to try to fuck a pussy but i can never keep it in. it always keep sliding out. my last girl friend said my penis is great for sucking on and that she did superbly.dam that woman gave great head. but i’ve been told that too.she said that most the time when we where going at it she said she could barly feel the head in her. And speaking for a man that loves a big cock boy does that matter.My boyfriend that iam envoled with is about 6 inches.He likes to play with my little cock and squeeze the shit out of my tiny balls.I’ve got some big toys he doesn’t know about and i’ll tell you that even six inches is small once youv’e had a few massive vibrators and dildos crammed in there.
Posted by: Mike Rocock | July 21, 2007 12:03 AM